Thursday, July 10, 2003
Sunday, July 6, 2003
Tuesday, July 1, 2003
Learn to "dance"
I spotted this billboard on my way to my grandmother's house in Lexington, Kentucky on June 26. Somehow, I don't think this sort of exposure was what the Arthur Murray school of dance had in mind.
Monday, June 30, 2003
What the hell?! Plus, helplessness
Blogger has seriously altered its UI. Here's hoping the thing still works.
I got home from an extended visit to the family on Friday, and since then I've been readjusting to Life in Augusta. I didn't do anything over the weekend, really, except a bit of posting and chatting. One rather odd thing that happened was Paul pulling my chair out from under me as I was sitting down. I fell hard on my butt...though to be honest, it didn't hurt. I was more surprised than anything. "What the hell?!" I spluttered, staring up at Sean, who was laughing. "What the hell?!" He managed to respond through his mirth: "It wasn't me!" I turned on Paul. "What the hell?!"
Today I've been sort of bouncing around websites, reading things. I followed a lot of the links on Hyung Sun Kim's site--you know, the one that was cooler when it was Kung Fool--and Derek Kirk Kim's Small Stories Online. That last brought me to Imitation of Life by Neil B. It's a web-comic-journal-thing, and I'm finding myself very intrigued by the emotions he can express through the combination of images and words. This entry in particular moved me...that fourth panel is haunting, what with the clear image of the man's eye in the swirl of the rest of him. Like his whole being is a mess, a hurricane, and in that one snatched moment he was able to impart that on the two guys in the car...and then, with the pulled-out shot of the bridge and receding car, he's gone.
I don't know how I would feel if I saw someone about to commit suicide, but I think that journal entry brought me very close to whatever that feeling would be.
That, and things like it, and angry people, and violence...they all make me feel so sad and helpless, when all I want, all I truly desire in life is happiness, for myself and for everyone else. I get so frustrated when people are unhappy. It makes me unhappy. Feeling like this doesn't provide any solutions to the world's problems...but I think that at least it helps me not to lose my humanity, even if I go on to agree, for example, that military action is the best option sometimes. Solutions have to be had, fast ones, ones that save people. This isn't war-mongering or callousness...it's pragmatism, which, just like my desire for universal happiness, has its place.
I wish I could save that man on the bridge.
I got home from an extended visit to the family on Friday, and since then I've been readjusting to Life in Augusta. I didn't do anything over the weekend, really, except a bit of posting and chatting. One rather odd thing that happened was Paul pulling my chair out from under me as I was sitting down. I fell hard on my butt...though to be honest, it didn't hurt. I was more surprised than anything. "What the hell?!" I spluttered, staring up at Sean, who was laughing. "What the hell?!" He managed to respond through his mirth: "It wasn't me!" I turned on Paul. "What the hell?!"
Today I've been sort of bouncing around websites, reading things. I followed a lot of the links on Hyung Sun Kim's site--you know, the one that was cooler when it was Kung Fool--and Derek Kirk Kim's Small Stories Online. That last brought me to Imitation of Life by Neil B. It's a web-comic-journal-thing, and I'm finding myself very intrigued by the emotions he can express through the combination of images and words. This entry in particular moved me...that fourth panel is haunting, what with the clear image of the man's eye in the swirl of the rest of him. Like his whole being is a mess, a hurricane, and in that one snatched moment he was able to impart that on the two guys in the car...and then, with the pulled-out shot of the bridge and receding car, he's gone.
I don't know how I would feel if I saw someone about to commit suicide, but I think that journal entry brought me very close to whatever that feeling would be.
That, and things like it, and angry people, and violence...they all make me feel so sad and helpless, when all I want, all I truly desire in life is happiness, for myself and for everyone else. I get so frustrated when people are unhappy. It makes me unhappy. Feeling like this doesn't provide any solutions to the world's problems...but I think that at least it helps me not to lose my humanity, even if I go on to agree, for example, that military action is the best option sometimes. Solutions have to be had, fast ones, ones that save people. This isn't war-mongering or callousness...it's pragmatism, which, just like my desire for universal happiness, has its place.
I wish I could save that man on the bridge.
Thursday, June 19, 2003
What Does My LJ Name Mean?
These are amusing :> Not that this is a LiveJournal or anything. But who cares!
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Tuesday, June 3, 2003
"Are You My Mother?"
I moved into the line for the ferris wheel. There was a boy towards the front who I had never seen before, but I knew that he was part of our family. I joined the line right behind him to hold places for everyone else: Mom, Dad, AJ, Faye, Ben, Connor. But I was on the lookout, for I had just given birth, and my child should be here...somewhere.
In the meantime, I talked with the boy, and we hit it off right away. He latched himself to me, little arms and legs winding around, and I held him close. "Are you my mother?" he asked.
"No," I said, for I was sure if I had just given birth, my child must still be an infant. "But your mother is coming soon. Don't worry."
He relaxed in my arms, and I deeply felt the loss of his tight embrace. I tried to keep the mood light-hearted, but to no avail. Finally I said, "I'm going to go look for your mother. I'll be back." And with that I left the line and went off on strange, nonsensical adventures.
When I returned to the line, I'd found Sean and Grandma Flo and brought them back with me. The boy was still there, crying miserably. His mother hadn't found him yet. My family was there too, and Faye was comforting the boy.
I looked at them and just stopped. There was something about the boy...and it seemed wrong for him to be in Faye's arms.
"Faye," I said, "is that my son?"
"Of course," Faye responded, as if she wondered how on earth I wouldn't know my own child.
"I'm sorry," I cried, gathering him up and holding him tight. "I'm so sorry, I am your mother." He latched on again, and again I felt a completeness I have never felt before. I knew I would hold him for the rest of my life.
I woke up then, and all the nonsense bits of the dream faded away as I remembered the main thing: I had not recognized my own baby, and I'd had to ask Faye if he was mine. I sat up in bed, still waking up, and stared at the floor. Sean rolled over and rubbed my arm, so I turned and smiled at him, then rose, collected my glasses and wedding rings, and left the room.
In the bathroom, hunched over on the toilet, I bawled. I haven't cried like that ever, as far as I can remember. Face twisted up, sobs coming unforced, tears streaming down, quiet, plaintive wailing. I let myself do that for awhile before getting back up, washing my face, and going back to the bedroom to cradle Sean in my arms like I would hold a child. He lay against my breast and I kissed the top of his head, and I stroked along his back, wondering if I ever would hold a child...our child.
I have gained weight recently because I find it hard to be healthy, but I realized something as I sat there holding my husband. Being overweight decreases my chances of being able to carry a child properly. While my ovaries are a huge question mark, I have been told that I can at least physically carry...but if I don't take care of my body, I imagine I'm destroying any slight chances I do have.
I'm going to try...I'm going to work to lose weight before November, because that is when Sean and I are going to go see an OB/GYN.
I have to.
In the meantime, I talked with the boy, and we hit it off right away. He latched himself to me, little arms and legs winding around, and I held him close. "Are you my mother?" he asked.
"No," I said, for I was sure if I had just given birth, my child must still be an infant. "But your mother is coming soon. Don't worry."
He relaxed in my arms, and I deeply felt the loss of his tight embrace. I tried to keep the mood light-hearted, but to no avail. Finally I said, "I'm going to go look for your mother. I'll be back." And with that I left the line and went off on strange, nonsensical adventures.
When I returned to the line, I'd found Sean and Grandma Flo and brought them back with me. The boy was still there, crying miserably. His mother hadn't found him yet. My family was there too, and Faye was comforting the boy.
I looked at them and just stopped. There was something about the boy...and it seemed wrong for him to be in Faye's arms.
"Faye," I said, "is that my son?"
"Of course," Faye responded, as if she wondered how on earth I wouldn't know my own child.
"I'm sorry," I cried, gathering him up and holding him tight. "I'm so sorry, I am your mother." He latched on again, and again I felt a completeness I have never felt before. I knew I would hold him for the rest of my life.
I woke up then, and all the nonsense bits of the dream faded away as I remembered the main thing: I had not recognized my own baby, and I'd had to ask Faye if he was mine. I sat up in bed, still waking up, and stared at the floor. Sean rolled over and rubbed my arm, so I turned and smiled at him, then rose, collected my glasses and wedding rings, and left the room.
In the bathroom, hunched over on the toilet, I bawled. I haven't cried like that ever, as far as I can remember. Face twisted up, sobs coming unforced, tears streaming down, quiet, plaintive wailing. I let myself do that for awhile before getting back up, washing my face, and going back to the bedroom to cradle Sean in my arms like I would hold a child. He lay against my breast and I kissed the top of his head, and I stroked along his back, wondering if I ever would hold a child...our child.
I have gained weight recently because I find it hard to be healthy, but I realized something as I sat there holding my husband. Being overweight decreases my chances of being able to carry a child properly. While my ovaries are a huge question mark, I have been told that I can at least physically carry...but if I don't take care of my body, I imagine I'm destroying any slight chances I do have.
I'm going to try...I'm going to work to lose weight before November, because that is when Sean and I are going to go see an OB/GYN.
I have to.
Sunday, May 18, 2003
Trendwhore
Today, Slate: Opinion & Commentary offers me the following link:
A who's who of Iraqi Shiite clerics
Come now, Slate. Politics will never be as cool as celebrity gossip.
A who's who of Iraqi Shiite clerics
Come now, Slate. Politics will never be as cool as celebrity gossip.
Thursday, May 8, 2003
What am I doing?
I've noticed two things about myself. I don't journal much, but I chat daily; and I don't write in the traditional sense, but I post.
These are not new revelations, but I've been thinking more and more about them lately as I've sat at home alone all day, unemployed and wondering where my life is going. What it comes down to is the question of whether or not I am wasting my writing ability, letting it atrophy as I spend my time on hobbies that will never garner me recognition or validation. Whether or not, ultimately, the kind of writing I do is the best kind of writing for me to be doing.
They say that to be a successful writer, one must write something every day. I do that. But there comes a point when one must go back to what one has written and start shaping it into something whole. This, I haven't done. My practice in school is barely a ripple in the waters. And can I truly take what I've done on the AMRN and fashion it into a story or novel? I don't feel that I can, not without using the work of others...and this would make the story not my own. If it were simply a matter of collaboration, that would be one thing, but how can I possibly contact every player whose characters my characters have come in contact with and ask them for permission to use their ideas? The author list would be absurd.
I can use my characters, though, and place them into a different story entirely.
And so I've been struggling with whether or not I should start a project, and how my work on that project would affect my work on the AMRN. My attention would be most certainly split. Should I leave the AMRN entirely?
While I've been there, I've changed the place, made it more writing-centered. Sean opposes this new path, though I'm not sure he realizes I was the cause. He wants everyone to have character sheets with stats and for those sheets to show improvement over time. He wants the AMRN to be more of a roleplaying game. I'm sure I can't blame him for that, because that's what the AMRN is supposed to be. It is not a place for collaborative story-writing, even if I have pushed to transform it into such.
My choice seems obvious at this point, but I am reluctant to leave, perhaps due to all the work I've put in over the years. And perhaps because of all the friends I've made there. Maybe I can simply withdraw a little bit more, free up my attention that way, and still stick around. I get the feeling, though, that the deeper I get into my projects, the more attention they will demand.
And so I've been frozen with indecision. This is doing me no good.
These are not new revelations, but I've been thinking more and more about them lately as I've sat at home alone all day, unemployed and wondering where my life is going. What it comes down to is the question of whether or not I am wasting my writing ability, letting it atrophy as I spend my time on hobbies that will never garner me recognition or validation. Whether or not, ultimately, the kind of writing I do is the best kind of writing for me to be doing.
They say that to be a successful writer, one must write something every day. I do that. But there comes a point when one must go back to what one has written and start shaping it into something whole. This, I haven't done. My practice in school is barely a ripple in the waters. And can I truly take what I've done on the AMRN and fashion it into a story or novel? I don't feel that I can, not without using the work of others...and this would make the story not my own. If it were simply a matter of collaboration, that would be one thing, but how can I possibly contact every player whose characters my characters have come in contact with and ask them for permission to use their ideas? The author list would be absurd.
I can use my characters, though, and place them into a different story entirely.
And so I've been struggling with whether or not I should start a project, and how my work on that project would affect my work on the AMRN. My attention would be most certainly split. Should I leave the AMRN entirely?
While I've been there, I've changed the place, made it more writing-centered. Sean opposes this new path, though I'm not sure he realizes I was the cause. He wants everyone to have character sheets with stats and for those sheets to show improvement over time. He wants the AMRN to be more of a roleplaying game. I'm sure I can't blame him for that, because that's what the AMRN is supposed to be. It is not a place for collaborative story-writing, even if I have pushed to transform it into such.
My choice seems obvious at this point, but I am reluctant to leave, perhaps due to all the work I've put in over the years. And perhaps because of all the friends I've made there. Maybe I can simply withdraw a little bit more, free up my attention that way, and still stick around. I get the feeling, though, that the deeper I get into my projects, the more attention they will demand.
And so I've been frozen with indecision. This is doing me no good.
Monday, May 5, 2003
The "motherly type"
-Motherly- You're the motherly type. You love to
take care of the one you love, and generally
you can be a bit overprotective and possessive,
but you know, that isn't always such a bad
thing. At least you'll be a good mom in the
future.
What Kind of Girlfriend Are You?
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Yeah, at least I know I'll be a good mom in the future! Gee, that thought brings me so much relief!!!!!!!
:P
Sigh. Being unemployed gives me too much time to think about things. Sitting at my window this morning (my computer desk is right next to the window, with the monitor facing away at an angle so there's no glare), I watched a young father and his toddler son romping around feeding the ducks. I want so desperately to have children that it's not even funny.
I always hoped that after awhile the pain would go away...but instead of doing that, it just recedes into the background, ready to jump out again at any moment.
There was some British sitcom on the local PBS affiliate recently wherein an old, bitter woman revealed that she didn't have any children because she couldn't. The episode revolved around her living vicariously through a younger woman who was having a baby. Is that as close as I'll ever get? As much as the episode tried to be positive and heartwarming, I couldn't feel anything but depressed.
Monday, April 7, 2003
Tuesday, February 25, 2003
Goin' downtown
Normally when I have mail I drop it into a basket at the apartment office, where it will be picked up and delivered at some unknown point in the future. Today, though, I drove my large envelope down Jackson Road to the post office, where I could be sure it would be sorted and sent today. I'm applying for a job with the U.S. Army Signal Corps, as editor of the main publication of that worthy body. I don't believe I am qualified, at least not in writing; however, I do know that I could do all the tasks described in the job posting. It pays extremely well, and it's right here in Augusta--more precisely, Fort Gordon--so it would be perfect for me. I hope the recruiters won't hold my lack of experience against me.
After that I turned around and headed back towards home, but instead of continuing on I turned right onto Walton Way, one of the prettiest roads in all of Augusta, where trees and old-timey manor houses line the street. I had my camera with me.
Since the self-actualization exercise, I've been eager to get out and about, but as I am easily bored, my apartment complex parking lot wasn't going to cut it forever. On Sunday, I amused myself by running around the complex taking pictures. Yesterday, I went to Augusta Mall, and took more (mainly of emptiness and ambulating oldsters, since the stores weren't open at 9 am). Today, I went downtown.
It was really a spontaneous decision. I had thrown on some stretch pants, my Obi-Wan shirt, and some sneakers, and pulled my hair back into a Hairagami bun. But as I was preparing to leave with my mail, I thought about taking the camera with me and snapping shots of Walton Way. I then pondered stopping occasionally to take better pictures, perhaps posing for a few. My slovenly outfit wouldn't do for pictures, so I changed into my grey dress pants and blue flowered shell with the sheer, short-sleeved outer shirt. Stepping into my brown loafers, I decided to put on my contact lenses, some makeup, and some jewelry. When I was finally satisfied with my appearance, I took a few pictures of the apartment and the driveway and finally made it out onto the road.
The trip to the post office didn't take long, and then I was off. I had a vague idea about heading downtown, but I just figured I would go wherever Walton Way took me. And so I did.
I passed through the upscale houses swathed in regal old pines and out into another commercial district. The Partridge Inn, a lovely, rather famous old hotel, went by on my right. I'd considered it for the wedding; it's so stately and elegant. Next door to the Inn was Smoak's Bakery, where we got our lovely wedding cake. I flew past them both and kept going, snapping pictures all the way. I had now firmly decided that I was going downtown to take pictures.
When Walton Way ended, a weird series of twists and turns landed me on Riverfront Parkway, a lovely lane running along the Savannah River. You can't see the river from the street, but you can tell that it's there. I got the same feeling from a little road running alongside the Ohio River in Louisville. The street was quite lovely; I imagined that it must be rather nice to live there.
A sweeping turn landed me on Broad Street. Figuring that I was still west of the city, I turned left and barrelled forward. Things were looking pretty thin and pokey, and I wondered how much farther I had to go.
And then, somehow, I wasn't on Broad Street anymore, but some sort of highway. Fascinated, I kept driving. I'm at the point with Augusta that I have a vague idea of where everything is, but there are so many gaps in my knowledge that a wrong turn can lead to quite an adventure. I drove and drove, finally passing over the Savannah River before coming to a large sign.
Oops. I'd blown through Augusta and into Aiken County, South Carolina.
No matter. I turned around and headed back. This time I knew that the street I was on would turn into Broad Street...and I already knew that Broad Street was the main hub of downtown Augusta.
When things finally started looking familiar, I pulled over into one of the parking spaces the city provides down the center of Broad Street. Gathering my camera and purse, I proceeded into town on foot, looking for good photo opportunities.
My wanderings led me down to 6th Street, where I encountered to my right the Augusta Museum of History. It's a grand building, brick, with a brick and cast iron fence running along the front and forming a regal gate. I decided to turn right and pass the museum. I knew that Riverwalk was somewhere along the Savannah River and that the Savannah River was in that direction. I figured if I kept walking, I'd happen upon it.
I passed the museum, what I believe was an old Pabst Blue Ribbon bottling factory with the words "Cream of Kentucky" in huge faded letters across the side, and a regal church, and I saw that I was coming upon a large metal bridge. I've always loved bridges like that; they look so old-timey that they practically belong wherever they are. Maybe it reminded me of High Bridge in Wilmore, Kentucky, a place I'd visited several times as a teenager. Or maybe I just like bridges. Whatever the reason, I eagerly approached it.
There was a bricked walkway leading up to and around the railway bridge. I followed the brick and concrete path to the top and looked down into what must be Augusta Marina, a small line of boats along the Savannah River. It was all very beautiful and peaceful. As I snapped pictures of the bridge, a woman towing her dog along commented to her husband, "Oh, I should have brought the camera!" As I'm usually the one saying that, I had to grin.
I considered following the bricked path the way the couple and their dog were, but it didn't seem to lead anywhere. Looking down to the building that lay below and beside the bridge, I saw that there seemed to be a garden path. I chose the low road, stepping down the grassy hill to the bottom.
I then realized I was at the Riverwalk. This was perfect, of course, because I wanted to be at the Riverwalk. It's gorgeous, and I've always wanted to take pictures of it. I have the niggling feeling that I have taken at least a few pictures before. But if I have, they must still be on a roll of undeveloped film somewhere.
In any case, I slipped across some rectangular terra cotta garden stones and into the Riverwalk proper. The complex is a series of bricked walks leading along the Savannah River, with staircases and ramps leading to higher ground. The whole area is filled with trees, shrubs, and flowers. Even now, in February, there are trees and plants in bloom. I took a moment to explore the Marina before entering the gates to Riverwalk.
The day was warm and mildly overcast, but still very beautiful. I paused to talk to a toddler who was tripping about Oglethorpe Park--I wouldn't realize the significance of the name 'Oglethorpe' until later--and then moved on to get more pictures. There were a handful of people at Riverwalk, strolling about or power-walking for exercise. I spoke briefly with a man who seemed to be aimlessly observing the pigeons and seagulls; he noted that I seemed to be having fun with my camera, and I remarked that the weather was quite different from the ice storms in Kentucky. Above all else, I took lots and lots of pictures.
I worked my way down to the amphitheater and decided to call it quits. There was more Riverwalk to be seen: the Japanese Pocket Garden and a few more delights lay beyond. But I was about out of pictures and batteries, and I was growing weary, so instead of continuing onwards I climbed the bricked steps of the amphitheater to put myself out at the main entrance of Riverwalk, on 9th Street.
Brick seems to be the theme here, but it's done quite beautifully. I love this part of town. I could--and did--stay there for hours.
Moving down the bricked portion of 9th Street and out to Reynolds Street, I made a left turn and continued on until I noticed a lovely courtyard smack in the middle of town, with gardens and statues. Beyond it lay Broad Street, which was where I was parked. I cut across Reynolds and into the park, which turned out to be the "Original Augusta Common", established in 1736. It was a quaint little spot, rather open, but not barren or lonely. It felt rather comfortable, right down to the little chess table off to one side.
Down towards the end of the Common, I discovered the Oglethorpe connection. Apparently he is the "Father of Georgia" and the "Founder of Augusta".
The text on the statue reads:
I made my way back down Broad Street again, seeing a few blocks I'd missed due to cutting towards the river at 6th Street. There were huge, imposing bank buildings with massive columns and looming gargoyles; there were quaint and funny shops; there was the Theatre, which I vowed to someday visit; but I have pictures of none of these, as I had used my last shot on General Oglethorpe's statue. Mourning this fact, I continued on, promising myself that one day I would return and take pictures only of downtown.
On my way, though, I saw that I was passing a gigantic ivory spire...and the inscription on the side said something to the extent of "a nation whose purposes were only Pure". Already I was thinking that it couldn't be...but as I rounded the statue I saw that it was.
A million conflicting emotions rose in me then, but amusement won out, and I knew I had to have a picture of this monument. I chose one of the less spectacular Riverwalk shots and deleted it to make room. Unfortunately, a group of tourists planted themselves smack in front of the thing, posing for pictures, debating and teasing each other instead of hurrying to take the group shot. I didn't have anywhere to go, particularly, but a young businesswoman who was getting into her car kept giving me strange looks, as if she was wondering why I was standing there with a camera. It was rather disconcerting. Finally I decided that it might be funny to have the pack of white tourists in the shot with the Confederate memorial, and so I quickly took my picture and scuttled off. Unfortunately, the inscriptions on the stone base are too blurry in my hasty picture, so the humor is completely lost.
And so that was my day, through the early afternoon. I hopped back in my car and hightailed it home, ready for my snack of potato chips and Vanilla Coke. Believe it or not, I've spent the rest of my time resizing and cropping pictures and writing this journal entry. I think it's about time to stop now. All in all, it was fun, and I'm looking forward to going back to get more pictures of downtown.
After that I turned around and headed back towards home, but instead of continuing on I turned right onto Walton Way, one of the prettiest roads in all of Augusta, where trees and old-timey manor houses line the street. I had my camera with me.
Since the self-actualization exercise, I've been eager to get out and about, but as I am easily bored, my apartment complex parking lot wasn't going to cut it forever. On Sunday, I amused myself by running around the complex taking pictures. Yesterday, I went to Augusta Mall, and took more (mainly of emptiness and ambulating oldsters, since the stores weren't open at 9 am). Today, I went downtown.
It was really a spontaneous decision. I had thrown on some stretch pants, my Obi-Wan shirt, and some sneakers, and pulled my hair back into a Hairagami bun. But as I was preparing to leave with my mail, I thought about taking the camera with me and snapping shots of Walton Way. I then pondered stopping occasionally to take better pictures, perhaps posing for a few. My slovenly outfit wouldn't do for pictures, so I changed into my grey dress pants and blue flowered shell with the sheer, short-sleeved outer shirt. Stepping into my brown loafers, I decided to put on my contact lenses, some makeup, and some jewelry. When I was finally satisfied with my appearance, I took a few pictures of the apartment and the driveway and finally made it out onto the road.
The trip to the post office didn't take long, and then I was off. I had a vague idea about heading downtown, but I just figured I would go wherever Walton Way took me. And so I did.
I passed through the upscale houses swathed in regal old pines and out into another commercial district. The Partridge Inn, a lovely, rather famous old hotel, went by on my right. I'd considered it for the wedding; it's so stately and elegant. Next door to the Inn was Smoak's Bakery, where we got our lovely wedding cake. I flew past them both and kept going, snapping pictures all the way. I had now firmly decided that I was going downtown to take pictures.
When Walton Way ended, a weird series of twists and turns landed me on Riverfront Parkway, a lovely lane running along the Savannah River. You can't see the river from the street, but you can tell that it's there. I got the same feeling from a little road running alongside the Ohio River in Louisville. The street was quite lovely; I imagined that it must be rather nice to live there.
A sweeping turn landed me on Broad Street. Figuring that I was still west of the city, I turned left and barrelled forward. Things were looking pretty thin and pokey, and I wondered how much farther I had to go.
And then, somehow, I wasn't on Broad Street anymore, but some sort of highway. Fascinated, I kept driving. I'm at the point with Augusta that I have a vague idea of where everything is, but there are so many gaps in my knowledge that a wrong turn can lead to quite an adventure. I drove and drove, finally passing over the Savannah River before coming to a large sign.
Oops. I'd blown through Augusta and into Aiken County, South Carolina.
No matter. I turned around and headed back. This time I knew that the street I was on would turn into Broad Street...and I already knew that Broad Street was the main hub of downtown Augusta.
When things finally started looking familiar, I pulled over into one of the parking spaces the city provides down the center of Broad Street. Gathering my camera and purse, I proceeded into town on foot, looking for good photo opportunities.
My wanderings led me down to 6th Street, where I encountered to my right the Augusta Museum of History. It's a grand building, brick, with a brick and cast iron fence running along the front and forming a regal gate. I decided to turn right and pass the museum. I knew that Riverwalk was somewhere along the Savannah River and that the Savannah River was in that direction. I figured if I kept walking, I'd happen upon it.
I passed the museum, what I believe was an old Pabst Blue Ribbon bottling factory with the words "Cream of Kentucky" in huge faded letters across the side, and a regal church, and I saw that I was coming upon a large metal bridge. I've always loved bridges like that; they look so old-timey that they practically belong wherever they are. Maybe it reminded me of High Bridge in Wilmore, Kentucky, a place I'd visited several times as a teenager. Or maybe I just like bridges. Whatever the reason, I eagerly approached it.
There was a bricked walkway leading up to and around the railway bridge. I followed the brick and concrete path to the top and looked down into what must be Augusta Marina, a small line of boats along the Savannah River. It was all very beautiful and peaceful. As I snapped pictures of the bridge, a woman towing her dog along commented to her husband, "Oh, I should have brought the camera!" As I'm usually the one saying that, I had to grin.
I considered following the bricked path the way the couple and their dog were, but it didn't seem to lead anywhere. Looking down to the building that lay below and beside the bridge, I saw that there seemed to be a garden path. I chose the low road, stepping down the grassy hill to the bottom.
I then realized I was at the Riverwalk. This was perfect, of course, because I wanted to be at the Riverwalk. It's gorgeous, and I've always wanted to take pictures of it. I have the niggling feeling that I have taken at least a few pictures before. But if I have, they must still be on a roll of undeveloped film somewhere.
In any case, I slipped across some rectangular terra cotta garden stones and into the Riverwalk proper. The complex is a series of bricked walks leading along the Savannah River, with staircases and ramps leading to higher ground. The whole area is filled with trees, shrubs, and flowers. Even now, in February, there are trees and plants in bloom. I took a moment to explore the Marina before entering the gates to Riverwalk.
The day was warm and mildly overcast, but still very beautiful. I paused to talk to a toddler who was tripping about Oglethorpe Park--I wouldn't realize the significance of the name 'Oglethorpe' until later--and then moved on to get more pictures. There were a handful of people at Riverwalk, strolling about or power-walking for exercise. I spoke briefly with a man who seemed to be aimlessly observing the pigeons and seagulls; he noted that I seemed to be having fun with my camera, and I remarked that the weather was quite different from the ice storms in Kentucky. Above all else, I took lots and lots of pictures.
I worked my way down to the amphitheater and decided to call it quits. There was more Riverwalk to be seen: the Japanese Pocket Garden and a few more delights lay beyond. But I was about out of pictures and batteries, and I was growing weary, so instead of continuing onwards I climbed the bricked steps of the amphitheater to put myself out at the main entrance of Riverwalk, on 9th Street.
Brick seems to be the theme here, but it's done quite beautifully. I love this part of town. I could--and did--stay there for hours.
Moving down the bricked portion of 9th Street and out to Reynolds Street, I made a left turn and continued on until I noticed a lovely courtyard smack in the middle of town, with gardens and statues. Beyond it lay Broad Street, which was where I was parked. I cut across Reynolds and into the park, which turned out to be the "Original Augusta Common", established in 1736. It was a quaint little spot, rather open, but not barren or lonely. It felt rather comfortable, right down to the little chess table off to one side.
Down towards the end of the Common, I discovered the Oglethorpe connection. Apparently he is the "Father of Georgia" and the "Founder of Augusta".
The text on the statue reads:
The thinking of the Misfortunes of others, and giving Succour to the afflicted, even before they ask, is the most glorious Action that can be performed by a mere human Creature.It sounds like General James Edward Oglethorpe was a pretty good guy.Oglethorpe 1732
I made my way back down Broad Street again, seeing a few blocks I'd missed due to cutting towards the river at 6th Street. There were huge, imposing bank buildings with massive columns and looming gargoyles; there were quaint and funny shops; there was the Theatre, which I vowed to someday visit; but I have pictures of none of these, as I had used my last shot on General Oglethorpe's statue. Mourning this fact, I continued on, promising myself that one day I would return and take pictures only of downtown.
On my way, though, I saw that I was passing a gigantic ivory spire...and the inscription on the side said something to the extent of "a nation whose purposes were only Pure". Already I was thinking that it couldn't be...but as I rounded the statue I saw that it was.
TO OUR CONFEDERATE DEAD
A million conflicting emotions rose in me then, but amusement won out, and I knew I had to have a picture of this monument. I chose one of the less spectacular Riverwalk shots and deleted it to make room. Unfortunately, a group of tourists planted themselves smack in front of the thing, posing for pictures, debating and teasing each other instead of hurrying to take the group shot. I didn't have anywhere to go, particularly, but a young businesswoman who was getting into her car kept giving me strange looks, as if she was wondering why I was standing there with a camera. It was rather disconcerting. Finally I decided that it might be funny to have the pack of white tourists in the shot with the Confederate memorial, and so I quickly took my picture and scuttled off. Unfortunately, the inscriptions on the stone base are too blurry in my hasty picture, so the humor is completely lost.
And so that was my day, through the early afternoon. I hopped back in my car and hightailed it home, ready for my snack of potato chips and Vanilla Coke. Believe it or not, I've spent the rest of my time resizing and cropping pictures and writing this journal entry. I think it's about time to stop now. All in all, it was fun, and I'm looking forward to going back to get more pictures of downtown.
Saturday, February 22, 2003
Self-actualization
Last night, or more correctly this morning at 5 am, I was guided through a self-actualization exercise a la Tony Robbins by my longtime friend--and sometimes foe, for that's how the best friendships tend to be--Ironside. I was asked to visualize a behavior I wished to change, and visualize how I would be after the change. Then I was to concentrate on using the new, happy image to destroy the old, ugly image. I went through this routine seven times last night, and seven times this morning.
My goal was to instill in myself the desire to get out of the apartment and move around. The picture in my head of the 'bad behavior' was a rather Jabba the Hutt image of myself sitting on the couch or at the computer desk with a blank look on my face, surfing channels or the Web. My 'good behavior' was a joyful, thinner me, bouncing around the parking lot of the apartment complex and enjoying the feel of the breeze and the vigor in my step.
When I finally made it to bed, I was having trouble sleeping. The concentration had made me feel rather light-headed and giddy, and the way I'd been asked to shout "WHOOSH" when I exploded the image of 'bad behavior' had only added to that sensation. Finally, though, I drifted off into almost perfect, uninterrupted sleep.
Somewhere around 9:30, I was awakened by a thunderstorm. High winds were shaking the gutters and flinging splats of rain onto the window. For a moment I was concerned...and then I remembered that Sean says we don't get tornadoes here, and so I rolled over and went back to sleep.
When I finally returned to true consciousness at around noon, I opened my eyes to see that Sean was not in bed beside me. There was little point in remaining there, wrapped in covers; and indeed, the room felt stuffy and just a bit too warm. I remembered that I'd shut off the air conditioning the night before, and I knew that Sean probably wouldn't have messed with it. Strangely, though, it wasn't with resignation that I rolled out of bed so much as with actual desire to be awake. This was quite different from Friday morning, in which I hid in bed for as long as possible, shirking my chores and responsibilities, too sorry for myself to even move.
I pulled on my black 'house pants', bra, and white ankle socks, and then I searched through the top drawer for a suitable T-shirt. It had to be light in color, that much was certain. Finally deciding on a beige tee from the "Jester" incarnation of my brothers' band, I pulled it on and then slipped into my tennis shoes. I left the bedroom, crossed through the living room, and went to 'my' bathroom, the guest one. I applied deodorant, pulled my hair back into a pony tail, brushed my teeth, and washed my face. I then stepped into the office, where Sean was already engaged in a game of Asheron's Call 2.
"I'm going for a walk," I said. "Want to come?"
He seemed to deliberate before saying "No." It turned out that he had just begun a long quest. I kissed him and retrieved my keys from where I'd left them on the card table--home of Eowyn, our dear server--and turned the air conditioning on as I left the room.
I wasn't sure how the weather was going to be. I hadn't checked it before stepping out the front door and into the rain-soaked world. But it turned out that the air temperature was fine--not warm, but certainly not cold, and there was a gentle breeze. My outfit was perfect, although I think I could have gotten away with shorts instead of pants.
Tromping down the three flights of stairs that I assumed would get me into shape when we moved in, I stuffed my keys into my pockets and set out through the parking lot. I'd made this circuit before, starting at the dumpster back behind and to the right of our apartment and moving clockwise. Today I went counter-clockwise. I stayed on the outside, defining my route by the tips of the parking space lines.
I'd smashed the ugly picture of myself seven times in my head the night before, each time with a solar plexus-huffed cry of "WHOOSH!" I was supposed to do it today, too, but I hadn't done it in the apartment for fear of looking foolish in front of Sean--isn't it amazing how such insecurities can follow us into married life?--and so I figured I'd better do it now. At reasonable intervals, when I thought no one could hear, I performed the visualization exercise as I walked, "WHOOSH"ing as loudly as I dared. Seeing the Jabba the Hutt me was more difficult, but seeing the new, happy, active me was easy, since I was doing what I want to be doing. I felt fantastic, the breeze cooling my skin, my muscles warming and moving, the scent of recent rain calming my mind and erasing stress and trouble. I have always loved water, and I believe it has a beneficial effect on me.
I decided to quit after one circuit. My muscles were tingly but weary, and I decided that rather than overdo it, I would go in, relax, and then take another walk later in the day. So I cut across the parking lot, stopping at my car to retrieve some groceries I'd left there a few days ago, and carted an armful back up the stairs.
Sean came out to greet me as I returned. "Ah, groceries! Hotdog buns! Hotdogs...that sounds good."
"You want hotdogs?"
"Yeah. You can make them for dinner if you want, but they sound really good right now."
He returned to his computer, no doubt lured once more by the call of Asheron, and I unloaded the basket I'd brought up from the car. Linens went into the bedroom, bread went into the breadbox and freezer, Mountain Dew and strawberry jam--homemade, from Mom--went into the fridge, and the basket itself went into the bathroom, where it will hold probably about half of my gargantuan collection of beauty products that I rarely, if ever, use.
I placed four hotdogs into the steaming shelf of my rice cooker and set it to 'cook'. We still don't have a microwave. As they were steaming I got out four buns and two plates, then started cooking a can of green beans (Allen's, Kentucky Wonder style) and a can of Bush's Baked Beans on the stove. By this point I had decided that I was not interested in eating at the dining room table, or at the computer. I slipped back into the office and hugged Sean's shoulders.
"Busy?"
"Um, uh, why?" My husband is very eloquent when he tries.
"I want to eat on the deck."
"I feel compelled to do that with you," he said after a brief pause. I love the way Sean phrases things. He always says what he thinks, but in such nontraditional ways that the importance of the words seems greater. In any case, I was highly flattered by this. "Let me just find this chief and kill him and I'll join you on the deck."
Agreeing, I moved off to prepare the deck for our picnic. The porch was a little damp from the rain, so I laid down two towels first, then spread my orange quilt on top. The breakfast in bed tray Gabrielle gave me one year (for Christmas or my birthday, I can't remember...but I love that tray) was ideal. I set out two potholders for the bean pans. The resulting area looked like this. I would like to mention at this juncture that the twenty extra dollars per month we pay for our view is well worth it. Once Sean was finished assassinating the NPC, I moved the food out to our cozy little picnic spot, like so.
We spent the early afternoon just sitting on the deck and eating and talking and watching the ducks frolic in the pond.
It was just nice. I feel refreshed and content. I plan to go on another walk a little later, to take the trash out and carry some letters over to the mailbox and then bring up more items from the car once I'm finished with my stroll. Today feels very positive, light, and happy. It's nice to feel good about myself, especially after the past few days of constant self-loathing. Cycles of despair are far too easy for me to fall into. But today I've been productive and yet carefree, satisfied. What a remarkable, welcome feeling. I don't know if the self-actualization is what did it or not, but I fully intend to ride this wave for as long as I can.
And now I feel the urge to get away from the computer...so I bid you a fond farewell. Have a lovely day, all, and keep smiling.
My goal was to instill in myself the desire to get out of the apartment and move around. The picture in my head of the 'bad behavior' was a rather Jabba the Hutt image of myself sitting on the couch or at the computer desk with a blank look on my face, surfing channels or the Web. My 'good behavior' was a joyful, thinner me, bouncing around the parking lot of the apartment complex and enjoying the feel of the breeze and the vigor in my step.
When I finally made it to bed, I was having trouble sleeping. The concentration had made me feel rather light-headed and giddy, and the way I'd been asked to shout "WHOOSH" when I exploded the image of 'bad behavior' had only added to that sensation. Finally, though, I drifted off into almost perfect, uninterrupted sleep.
Somewhere around 9:30, I was awakened by a thunderstorm. High winds were shaking the gutters and flinging splats of rain onto the window. For a moment I was concerned...and then I remembered that Sean says we don't get tornadoes here, and so I rolled over and went back to sleep.
When I finally returned to true consciousness at around noon, I opened my eyes to see that Sean was not in bed beside me. There was little point in remaining there, wrapped in covers; and indeed, the room felt stuffy and just a bit too warm. I remembered that I'd shut off the air conditioning the night before, and I knew that Sean probably wouldn't have messed with it. Strangely, though, it wasn't with resignation that I rolled out of bed so much as with actual desire to be awake. This was quite different from Friday morning, in which I hid in bed for as long as possible, shirking my chores and responsibilities, too sorry for myself to even move.
I pulled on my black 'house pants', bra, and white ankle socks, and then I searched through the top drawer for a suitable T-shirt. It had to be light in color, that much was certain. Finally deciding on a beige tee from the "Jester" incarnation of my brothers' band, I pulled it on and then slipped into my tennis shoes. I left the bedroom, crossed through the living room, and went to 'my' bathroom, the guest one. I applied deodorant, pulled my hair back into a pony tail, brushed my teeth, and washed my face. I then stepped into the office, where Sean was already engaged in a game of Asheron's Call 2.
"I'm going for a walk," I said. "Want to come?"
He seemed to deliberate before saying "No." It turned out that he had just begun a long quest. I kissed him and retrieved my keys from where I'd left them on the card table--home of Eowyn, our dear server--and turned the air conditioning on as I left the room.
I wasn't sure how the weather was going to be. I hadn't checked it before stepping out the front door and into the rain-soaked world. But it turned out that the air temperature was fine--not warm, but certainly not cold, and there was a gentle breeze. My outfit was perfect, although I think I could have gotten away with shorts instead of pants.
Tromping down the three flights of stairs that I assumed would get me into shape when we moved in, I stuffed my keys into my pockets and set out through the parking lot. I'd made this circuit before, starting at the dumpster back behind and to the right of our apartment and moving clockwise. Today I went counter-clockwise. I stayed on the outside, defining my route by the tips of the parking space lines.
I'd smashed the ugly picture of myself seven times in my head the night before, each time with a solar plexus-huffed cry of "WHOOSH!" I was supposed to do it today, too, but I hadn't done it in the apartment for fear of looking foolish in front of Sean--isn't it amazing how such insecurities can follow us into married life?--and so I figured I'd better do it now. At reasonable intervals, when I thought no one could hear, I performed the visualization exercise as I walked, "WHOOSH"ing as loudly as I dared. Seeing the Jabba the Hutt me was more difficult, but seeing the new, happy, active me was easy, since I was doing what I want to be doing. I felt fantastic, the breeze cooling my skin, my muscles warming and moving, the scent of recent rain calming my mind and erasing stress and trouble. I have always loved water, and I believe it has a beneficial effect on me.
I decided to quit after one circuit. My muscles were tingly but weary, and I decided that rather than overdo it, I would go in, relax, and then take another walk later in the day. So I cut across the parking lot, stopping at my car to retrieve some groceries I'd left there a few days ago, and carted an armful back up the stairs.
Sean came out to greet me as I returned. "Ah, groceries! Hotdog buns! Hotdogs...that sounds good."
"You want hotdogs?"
"Yeah. You can make them for dinner if you want, but they sound really good right now."
He returned to his computer, no doubt lured once more by the call of Asheron, and I unloaded the basket I'd brought up from the car. Linens went into the bedroom, bread went into the breadbox and freezer, Mountain Dew and strawberry jam--homemade, from Mom--went into the fridge, and the basket itself went into the bathroom, where it will hold probably about half of my gargantuan collection of beauty products that I rarely, if ever, use.
I placed four hotdogs into the steaming shelf of my rice cooker and set it to 'cook'. We still don't have a microwave. As they were steaming I got out four buns and two plates, then started cooking a can of green beans (Allen's, Kentucky Wonder style) and a can of Bush's Baked Beans on the stove. By this point I had decided that I was not interested in eating at the dining room table, or at the computer. I slipped back into the office and hugged Sean's shoulders.
"Busy?"
"Um, uh, why?" My husband is very eloquent when he tries.
"I want to eat on the deck."
"I feel compelled to do that with you," he said after a brief pause. I love the way Sean phrases things. He always says what he thinks, but in such nontraditional ways that the importance of the words seems greater. In any case, I was highly flattered by this. "Let me just find this chief and kill him and I'll join you on the deck."
Agreeing, I moved off to prepare the deck for our picnic. The porch was a little damp from the rain, so I laid down two towels first, then spread my orange quilt on top. The breakfast in bed tray Gabrielle gave me one year (for Christmas or my birthday, I can't remember...but I love that tray) was ideal. I set out two potholders for the bean pans. The resulting area looked like this. I would like to mention at this juncture that the twenty extra dollars per month we pay for our view is well worth it. Once Sean was finished assassinating the NPC, I moved the food out to our cozy little picnic spot, like so.
We spent the early afternoon just sitting on the deck and eating and talking and watching the ducks frolic in the pond.
It was just nice. I feel refreshed and content. I plan to go on another walk a little later, to take the trash out and carry some letters over to the mailbox and then bring up more items from the car once I'm finished with my stroll. Today feels very positive, light, and happy. It's nice to feel good about myself, especially after the past few days of constant self-loathing. Cycles of despair are far too easy for me to fall into. But today I've been productive and yet carefree, satisfied. What a remarkable, welcome feeling. I don't know if the self-actualization is what did it or not, but I fully intend to ride this wave for as long as I can.
And now I feel the urge to get away from the computer...so I bid you a fond farewell. Have a lovely day, all, and keep smiling.
Monday, February 17, 2003
TIPS FOR THE LAZY HOUSEWIFE
- Get out of bed. You'll have more time to do things if you avoid the temptation to sleep until noon. Besides, you know once your husband gets home you won't be able to accomplish anything.
- Take a shower. You'll be a total slug until you're clean and dressed. Sitting around in your nightgown with nappy hair all day doesn't inspire you to do much.
- Don't log onto any instant messaging programs. You'll hate yourself if you do.
- Make a monthly schedule and a daily list. Whether in your head or on paper, a list will help you to keep yourself busy.
- Ignore me, because I don't practice what I preach. The Kabalarians are right.
Thursday, January 30, 2003
Dude!
* Phantom bets that r3ap3r's the one with the erection now ^^
* r3aper looks down
<r3aper> nope
<r3aper> takes more than the talk of porn to give me one
<r3aper> there needs to be substance
<r3aper> dude
<r3aper> Daredevil
I know, I know. Actual substance will arrive soon. Or when I feel like it. Whichever.
* r3aper looks down
<r3aper> nope
<r3aper> takes more than the talk of porn to give me one
<r3aper> there needs to be substance
<r3aper> dude
<r3aper> Daredevil
I know, I know. Actual substance will arrive soon. Or when I feel like it. Whichever.
Wednesday, December 25, 2002
Christmas
I am exhausted.
I've been pushing myself to the limit--which really isn't very far, but I'm out of shape ;P--getting ready for the move and the wedding and, of course, Christmas. I made so many different types of cookie this year; I'm pretty proud of myself, but it was a big effort. I also did a lot of the decorating for our family celebration.
We had Christmas yesterday on Christmas Eve, since Faye and AJ and Connor are spending Christmas Day at Faye's mother's house in Cynthiana. So when I got off my eight hour shift that morning, I went to Wal-Mart to pick up a few things I needed--some more white chocolate to dip Christmas tree cookies in, and some bottled water and Coke for Dad--and then went home and finished up the aforementioned Christmas tree cookies. When I say I "finished" I mean I dipped little trees into white chocolate for as long as I could possibly stand, and ended up leaving about half of them undecorated. I made far too many of those cookies. Fortunately, I got enough of them done to put in tins for shipping and still have some left over for family eating.
After finishing those up, I worked on cleaning the kitchen and preparing the living room and dining room for Christmas. I put two more leaves in the table; cleared out the boxes I'd brought from Grandma's--she gave me some things for my new home, and I hadn't bothered to pack the boxes up yet; set the table nicely; cleaned out all the cookie-making stuff from the kitchen and arranged the cookies on the table; and then, as everything was under control and it was noon and the party wasn't till 4, I decided to take a quick nap until 1:45, and so I did.
When I got up I took my shower and got dressed. I decided to look Christmas-y for once. At one of the family dinners this year I didn't dress up, and I looked awful in the pictures, and so I definitely knew I wanted to wear something nice. At the same time, I wanted to make sure I looked like I was celebrating Christmas, and not Thanksgiving or some other fall holiday--many of my nice clothes are in fall colors like brown and tan. Luckily, I came across a short sleeve green shirt handed down to me from Mom, a black skirt with a red and green floral design, and a red button-down sweater. I complemented this getup with some festive jewelry; here's the result:
You can see my beautiful engagement ring in that shot too ;)
So after I was all ready to party, it was only three o'clock. I set to work making my famous corn casserole. Well, okay, it's not really my corn casserole; we got the recipe from Dickie Lee Porter, mother of Isaac, who used to be a total jerk to me in middle school but turned out okay in high school. Anyway, it's a damn good side dish. I also started the tea and peeled the potatoes so when Ben finally arrived he could make mashed potatoes. Then I tried to relax a little bit, and then finally everyone had arrived and it was time to party. AJ, Faye, Connor, Ben, and Dan were there in addition to me, Mom, and Dad. We all missed Manda and Sean; it's too bad they couldn't be here! Maybe next Christmas the whole family will be able to come together.
We had a lovely dinner: ham, broccoli casserole, corn casserole, mashed potatoes, scalloped oysters, peas, green beans, rolls, and Jell-O fruit salad. Everything was so delicious. I somehow wound up eating too much, and I'm still not sure how that happened, but I was unable to finish what was on my plate, and even now, eight hours later, I still feel full. Suffice it to say that I didn't have any dessert (I know, blasphemy!), but I did drink some boiled custard, which was quite good. Hopefully tomorrow I'll feel up to trying some of Faye's apple pie; she makes them so well.
After dinner we cleaned up a bit and let our food settle, then set to work opening packages. Socks were the big thing; I think everyone received them except Mom. ;) In addition to that, I got two Southern Living cookbooks from Mom, a lovely black shawl, hat, and gloves from Ben and Manda, a set of silverware from AJ and Faye, and last but not least the gift I'd been begging for for months: a digital camera, identical to Mom's, from Mom and Dad. This is just like the camera I took to Japan--I'm so excited that I'll have one to take in March!
Connor, of course, got lots of toys, but the biggest toy that was unwrapped was the digital piano Mom got for the boys. They'd planned on using it to orchestrate some music for the band. I'm not sure if it turned out to be what they wanted or not, but it was certainly quite a fine piano. It got me wondering whether or not I should invest in one someday, or just buy a real piano. I'll have to think on that. I lean towards the real piano because, well, it's real, but at the same time a digital one would take up less space and wouldn't need to be tuned. Something to ponder. Of course, it would help if I actually played the piano every now and then.
When everyone descended into the joy of playing with their gifts, I descended into the joy of sleep. It wasn't nearly long enough; right now my eyes are dry and I have a headache and I really just want to pass out. But I'm at work right now (I'm working on Christmas!), so I can't really take a nap. Boo hoo...I'll probably end up watching Full Metal Panic!, like I did last night and the night before. Fortunately, this is my last day, and then I have about a week of free time before I move to Georgia.
Everything's happening so fast :> It'll be nice to get moved in and settled so I can relax into a routine. Of course, after the move and wedding there is the little matter of finding me a job, and then of course there's planning the honeymoon, which is still taking place in March...so perhaps I won't truly get to relax for awhile. We'll have to see.
Being busy like this isn't really a curse, though; for one thing, I choose to be this busy, and for another, I am ecstatic about it. I'm getting married! I'm starting a new life! I am truly one of the luckiest people ever, because I managed to find a man who so perfectly complements me it's scary sometimes, someone I can love and hold and kiss and take care of, someone who is so cute and handsome and smart and witty and sexy and fun that I sometimes wonder what he sees in me. And we get to be together for the rest of our lives! It's such a rush of happy feeling.
I'm also lucky simply because I'm not starting off my new life in debt--my parents were able to pay my college tuition in full, without student loans--and I actually have a lot more of the things I'll need to take care of my own household than a lot of people do when they're first starting out. My aunt Bev bought us a beautiful dining set from JC Penney, my dad is giving us his blue loveseat, Sean's parents are giving us their La-Z-Boy and some nested glass tables, we have other furniture and dishes and silverware and Tupperware and kitchen appliances...man, we are pretty much set. (If you want to see what we don't have, then click here.)
So yeah...I feel really happy and lucky. The only bad thing to happen is that I got a B in one of my classes this semester, meaning that my final GPA is a 3.388. I needed a 3.4 to graduate cum laude...but that's the way the cookie crumbles. I have to admit that the Shakespeare survey was not my top priority these past three months. In fact, it was probably my last priority...and I should probably consider myself lucky to have gotten the B. I wish I hadn't had to take the class at all, though :>
But that isn't enough to dampen my mood, really. I've got too many other good things going on. And I'm graduating, so I don't have to deal with stupid classes anymore! At least for awhile. I do want to get my PhD in Linguistics at some point, and I'm also considering getting an MBA. We'll have to see what happens there. For now I just need a job ;)
The upshot is (did I just write "the upshot is"? -_-), I am very blessed and happy right now. I love my life, I love my family, I love my friends, and I love my future husband.
I also love the fact that this is my last day of working night desk. I am soooooo tired right now.
I've been pushing myself to the limit--which really isn't very far, but I'm out of shape ;P--getting ready for the move and the wedding and, of course, Christmas. I made so many different types of cookie this year; I'm pretty proud of myself, but it was a big effort. I also did a lot of the decorating for our family celebration.
We had Christmas yesterday on Christmas Eve, since Faye and AJ and Connor are spending Christmas Day at Faye's mother's house in Cynthiana. So when I got off my eight hour shift that morning, I went to Wal-Mart to pick up a few things I needed--some more white chocolate to dip Christmas tree cookies in, and some bottled water and Coke for Dad--and then went home and finished up the aforementioned Christmas tree cookies. When I say I "finished" I mean I dipped little trees into white chocolate for as long as I could possibly stand, and ended up leaving about half of them undecorated. I made far too many of those cookies. Fortunately, I got enough of them done to put in tins for shipping and still have some left over for family eating.
After finishing those up, I worked on cleaning the kitchen and preparing the living room and dining room for Christmas. I put two more leaves in the table; cleared out the boxes I'd brought from Grandma's--she gave me some things for my new home, and I hadn't bothered to pack the boxes up yet; set the table nicely; cleaned out all the cookie-making stuff from the kitchen and arranged the cookies on the table; and then, as everything was under control and it was noon and the party wasn't till 4, I decided to take a quick nap until 1:45, and so I did.
When I got up I took my shower and got dressed. I decided to look Christmas-y for once. At one of the family dinners this year I didn't dress up, and I looked awful in the pictures, and so I definitely knew I wanted to wear something nice. At the same time, I wanted to make sure I looked like I was celebrating Christmas, and not Thanksgiving or some other fall holiday--many of my nice clothes are in fall colors like brown and tan. Luckily, I came across a short sleeve green shirt handed down to me from Mom, a black skirt with a red and green floral design, and a red button-down sweater. I complemented this getup with some festive jewelry; here's the result:
You can see my beautiful engagement ring in that shot too ;)
So after I was all ready to party, it was only three o'clock. I set to work making my famous corn casserole. Well, okay, it's not really my corn casserole; we got the recipe from Dickie Lee Porter, mother of Isaac, who used to be a total jerk to me in middle school but turned out okay in high school. Anyway, it's a damn good side dish. I also started the tea and peeled the potatoes so when Ben finally arrived he could make mashed potatoes. Then I tried to relax a little bit, and then finally everyone had arrived and it was time to party. AJ, Faye, Connor, Ben, and Dan were there in addition to me, Mom, and Dad. We all missed Manda and Sean; it's too bad they couldn't be here! Maybe next Christmas the whole family will be able to come together.
We had a lovely dinner: ham, broccoli casserole, corn casserole, mashed potatoes, scalloped oysters, peas, green beans, rolls, and Jell-O fruit salad. Everything was so delicious. I somehow wound up eating too much, and I'm still not sure how that happened, but I was unable to finish what was on my plate, and even now, eight hours later, I still feel full. Suffice it to say that I didn't have any dessert (I know, blasphemy!), but I did drink some boiled custard, which was quite good. Hopefully tomorrow I'll feel up to trying some of Faye's apple pie; she makes them so well.
After dinner we cleaned up a bit and let our food settle, then set to work opening packages. Socks were the big thing; I think everyone received them except Mom. ;) In addition to that, I got two Southern Living cookbooks from Mom, a lovely black shawl, hat, and gloves from Ben and Manda, a set of silverware from AJ and Faye, and last but not least the gift I'd been begging for for months: a digital camera, identical to Mom's, from Mom and Dad. This is just like the camera I took to Japan--I'm so excited that I'll have one to take in March!
Connor, of course, got lots of toys, but the biggest toy that was unwrapped was the digital piano Mom got for the boys. They'd planned on using it to orchestrate some music for the band. I'm not sure if it turned out to be what they wanted or not, but it was certainly quite a fine piano. It got me wondering whether or not I should invest in one someday, or just buy a real piano. I'll have to think on that. I lean towards the real piano because, well, it's real, but at the same time a digital one would take up less space and wouldn't need to be tuned. Something to ponder. Of course, it would help if I actually played the piano every now and then.
When everyone descended into the joy of playing with their gifts, I descended into the joy of sleep. It wasn't nearly long enough; right now my eyes are dry and I have a headache and I really just want to pass out. But I'm at work right now (I'm working on Christmas!), so I can't really take a nap. Boo hoo...I'll probably end up watching Full Metal Panic!, like I did last night and the night before. Fortunately, this is my last day, and then I have about a week of free time before I move to Georgia.
Everything's happening so fast :> It'll be nice to get moved in and settled so I can relax into a routine. Of course, after the move and wedding there is the little matter of finding me a job, and then of course there's planning the honeymoon, which is still taking place in March...so perhaps I won't truly get to relax for awhile. We'll have to see.
Being busy like this isn't really a curse, though; for one thing, I choose to be this busy, and for another, I am ecstatic about it. I'm getting married! I'm starting a new life! I am truly one of the luckiest people ever, because I managed to find a man who so perfectly complements me it's scary sometimes, someone I can love and hold and kiss and take care of, someone who is so cute and handsome and smart and witty and sexy and fun that I sometimes wonder what he sees in me. And we get to be together for the rest of our lives! It's such a rush of happy feeling.
I'm also lucky simply because I'm not starting off my new life in debt--my parents were able to pay my college tuition in full, without student loans--and I actually have a lot more of the things I'll need to take care of my own household than a lot of people do when they're first starting out. My aunt Bev bought us a beautiful dining set from JC Penney, my dad is giving us his blue loveseat, Sean's parents are giving us their La-Z-Boy and some nested glass tables, we have other furniture and dishes and silverware and Tupperware and kitchen appliances...man, we are pretty much set. (If you want to see what we don't have, then click here.)
So yeah...I feel really happy and lucky. The only bad thing to happen is that I got a B in one of my classes this semester, meaning that my final GPA is a 3.388. I needed a 3.4 to graduate cum laude...but that's the way the cookie crumbles. I have to admit that the Shakespeare survey was not my top priority these past three months. In fact, it was probably my last priority...and I should probably consider myself lucky to have gotten the B. I wish I hadn't had to take the class at all, though :>
But that isn't enough to dampen my mood, really. I've got too many other good things going on. And I'm graduating, so I don't have to deal with stupid classes anymore! At least for awhile. I do want to get my PhD in Linguistics at some point, and I'm also considering getting an MBA. We'll have to see what happens there. For now I just need a job ;)
The upshot is (did I just write "the upshot is"? -_-), I am very blessed and happy right now. I love my life, I love my family, I love my friends, and I love my future husband.
I also love the fact that this is my last day of working night desk. I am soooooo tired right now.
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