Zzzzzz...

I've been pretty busy since getting home from Kentucky. Working full-time, regular daylight hours is a new experience for me, and I'm still adjusting. My past jobs have all been part time or shift work: at Wal-Mart (for the whole week and a half I worked there) I was doing a 2 to 11 pm shift; at Willis Music I worked different hours at varying points between 9 am and 6 pm; at GRW I worked 3 pm to midnight (due to going to school); and at the University of Kentucky night desk I worked either midnight to 4 am, 4 am to 8 am, or both. So yeah, I guess from that lineup I appear to be a night owl, and this new 8 am to 5 pm (soon to be 7 am to 4 pm) shift has me a little wonked. I've basically had to start going to bed at around 10 or 11 pm in order to get enough sleep, which precludes participating in many of the online chats I've come to love. I'm in bed before most of our AMRN people get online; either they're out doing something else until the late evening, or they're on the other side of the world, in which case they're at work or just waking up when I'm going to bed.

This might be a good thing; sitting around chatting could be considered a waste of time, especially if I'm not accomplishing anything else in tandem. But I have always liked being available to my AMRN players and GMs, and it looks like that won't be as possible anymore.

Regardless, this week hasn't been extraordinarily restful. I got home on Monday night after 8 hours of driving, stayed up too late, and then got up early for work the next day. I've been trying to get more sleep since then, and it's worked out all right, but I've had chores and errands to do after work that have made me feel as if I don't have time to do anything. Normally I would catch up on the weekend, but I'm driving to Savannah on Saturday to see my aunt and cousin, so I have to get everything done before then, including get all the junk I brought home from Kentucky out of my car, and two loads of laundry. I guess those will be my chores for today after work, since I don't have any other time to do them.

Yesterday I listened to a motivational CD by Earl Nightengale. It was fairly inspiring, but I've been left sort of befuddled. The main point was that people should pick goals and then work towards them in order to be successful. That has been a real problem for me in the past, and right now. What is my goal? I have a business idea, which I'll not describe here lest someone steal it ;>, but I don't know if that is my goal in life. Then again, I don't know if the goals have to be permanent...I think maybe after you've accomplished one goal, you can come up with another one.

I guess my main problem with doing this sort of thing has been not wanting to give up on certain dreams in favor of other ones...and of course, fear of failure. Once I get past the first one and pick a goal, Nightengale suggests writing my goal down on a card and looking at it whenever I feel discouraged or fearful. I suppose that could work...so I just need to figure out what my goal is.

I was talking with AJ about it, and he suggested that I make a list of all my goals with two columns: REALLY WANT to do, and WOULD LIKE to do. Then, he said, I could prioritize the REALLY list in terms of feasibility. I don't think Nightengale would approve of that second step; I'm supposed to believe that I can do anything. The first one, though, might be helpful.

I need to leave for work in about fifteen minutes, so I don't want to start making my lists now. I'd like to give them some time and consideration. Sadly, I already know one of the things that's going on my REALLY list: "be a mommy".

My body shape has changed somewhat, so that my stomach seems to be sticking out more than it was before. This isn't new; it's been happening to me for months now. When I look at my profile, I tend to feel like I look pregnant. This has caused me to purchase pregnancy tests three times, "just to make sure". Wednesday was one of those times, and seeing the negative result was depressing. Even though I know it's impossible, I still have hope...and that hope invariably leads me to despair.

Working for Proactive Genetics doesn't really help my emotional state. I do all the mailings for the company, and I'm in charge of the affiliate program, so it's not like I can divorce myself from the idea of having children. It's in my face on a daily basis. Every day, some lucky person with twins puts in an order for our zygosity test. I can't even have one, but all these people have two. You can see how this would get disenheartening.

Still, I'm trying to stay positive. Maybe it's possible. If it's not, maybe I can adopt. Unfortunately, with all these maybes, it's sort of hard to make goals! The only thing I know definitively is that Sean doesn't want children right now. Sometimes I wonder if he ever will.

Maybe. :P