Just say no

Doctors seem to think they'll hurt my feelings if they say no. "Never say never," they'll say, even after informing me that there is only a 7% chance of ovary function returning to normal after a bone marrow transplant, and even then it usually happens within the first year of recovery.

I would rather you just told me it was impossible, because I hate wishing and hoping and planning when I don't know if it will ever happen.

Regardless, I do think I like my new doctor, despite her tendency to ramble.